On a first date, boys should avoid saying things that may cause embarrassment or discomfort. Here are 10 things that boys are best not to say on their first date:
"How did you grow so fat?" - This topic of body evaluation is very impolite and may hurt the other person's emotions.
"My ex girlfriend always does the same..." - Comparing her date to her ex may make her feel uncomfortable or unimportant.
"My mother will really like you." - mentioning family members, especially mothers, on a first date may make the other person feel too stressed.
"Why are you still single?" - This question often contains negative implications that may make the other person feel uncomfortable.
"You look completely different from the photo." - Even if it's true, saying so can make the other person feel deceived or not appreciated.
"I hope you're not a girl with high maintenance costs." - Such comments may make the woman feel labeled.
"I usually don't do this kind of thing, but I feel particularly lonely tonight." - This may make the other person feel like she's just filling the gap and not your sincere date.
"Can you stop ordering such expensive dishes?" - Discussing money is usually not a good topic for first dates, especially in this controlled way.
"Let's go back to my house, my roommate is not here tonight." - Such a proposal may make the other person feel uncomfortable, giving the impression that you just want to have a physical relationship.
"Don't you like me? Why don't you smile more?" - Such questioning can make people feel oppressed and also show a lack of confidence and patience.
The first date is an excellent opportunity for both parties to get to know each other, and a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere should be maintained to avoid touching on sensitive topics or showing overly strong personal needs. The above words may make the other party feel uncomfortable or disrespected, thereby affecting the development of the relationship between the two parties.
